I think my man is gay

I have been living with my boyfriend for over a year now. He is not at all interested in s**. His s** drive, even in the beginning, was not as strong as mine but now it is gone....gone....gone. I have asked him many times and he just blew me off saying he was tired or pre occupied with his favorite hobby; duck hunting. Eventually after asking many times he said simply "i might have a problem". I am very loving and understanding and would have been receptive to anything he had to say. I even suggested he see a doctor just to see if it was physical but he won't go. He is sweet to me, always kisses me(never any tongue) hello and goodbye and tells me he loves me. Any ideas?

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  • maybe he has erectile dysfunction? or maybe he's cheating on you? my sisters ex fiance used to tell her there was something wrong with her when she wanted to have s** and he didn't, but the real reason he didn't want to have s** was because he was cheating on her.
    Maybe its you?
    maybe hes not attracted anymore
    Aw, jeez, I read that as "d*** hunting" -- and I though his problem was self-explanatory.. :) There are more guys like this then you'd think - a little confession of my own, I guess -I know this because I've slept with a number of their wives/ girlfriends. I've heard of guys who were disgusted by s**, who had confidence problems because of their size or ability, or just were appalled that anyone actually did anything other than missionary s**, in a bed, with the lights off. If it's no fun, well, why bother? Really any number of problems. But the one thing I'm pretty sure of - it'll never get any better. Unless the proble is if there's something about having s** with *you* that's turning him off - too fat, you make funny noises, you don't bathe, you wear too much perfume, too hairy, whatever. (sorry to make it personal - obviously, I have no idea.) Those are all 'fixable' things. But if he just hates s**, well, if you stay with him, I'll see you in the bars someday ... ;)

  • Aw, jeez, I read that as "d*** hunting" -- and I thought his problem was self-explanatory .. :)

    There are more guys like this than you'd think - a little confession of my own, I guess - I know this because I've slept with a number of their wives / girlfriends. I've heard of guys who were disgusted by s**, who had confidence problems because of their size or ability, or just were appalled that anyone actually did anything other than missionary s**, in a bed, with the lights off. If it's no fun, well, why bother?

    Really, any number of problems. But the one thing I'm pretty sure of - it'll never get any better. Unless the problem is if there's something about having s** with *you* that's turning him off - too fat, you make funny noises, you don't bathe, you wear too much perfume, too hairy, whatever. (sorry to make it personal - obviously, I have no idea.) Those are all 'fixable' things. But if he just hates s**, well, if you stay with him, I'll see you in the bars someday ... ;)

  • I am a man. If I was cheating on my woman, it wouldn't keep me from having s** with either partner. I have such a HUGE s** drive, I know I could satisfy more than 1 woman at a time:) Your man isn't cheating, but there is something else going on. It's just not normal for a man to have NO s** drive. Good Luck...if it doesn't work out, call me sometime, and I'll service your engine, if you know what I mean, LOL!!

  • maybe hes not attracted anymore

  • Maybe its you?

  • maybe he has erectile dysfunction? or maybe he's cheating on you? my sisters ex fiance used to tell her there was something wrong with her when she wanted to have s** and he didn't, but the real reason he didn't want to have s** was because he was cheating on her.

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