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co worker / friend
found myself addicted to my straight co worker... he is very chubby, shows not bulge in his **, little hands and arrogant. Drawn to his character, wit and intelligence. Been in a relationship for 20 years and now the highlighrt of my day is going to work to chat and be near him.. I don't like these uncomfortable feelings.. what shoud I do?
frustrated
Invite him out for a drink and tell him your situation. Make a pass by grabbing his hand and placing it on your **.. if he rubs and responds - go for it.. If he freaks out, apologize and move on... He might be impressed if you are packin since he obviously is small per your post...Yeah, maybe his arrogance is a smoke screen for his physical limitations...
Well... it seems like a fine non-sexual relationship. Which is just fine. Perhaps he is a gem and teddy bear once he takes off his game-face. He probably does have a complex where he knows there are some aspects of his apperance he doesn't like so acts more arrogant to force his intelligence.
Can you keep it non-sexual? Perhaps also find time outside of work to enjoy something? Not a dinner or movie but maybe a art opening, or anything un-romantic. Amusement park? Its just that you've made a new male friend. It happens.
Hit on him!! I bet he'll go for it. Or at least be flattered.