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my hubby may have conceived a child during a "bre
k" DNA test today. Does it make me a bad person to hope this child is not his? Dpes it make me bad to want him to have to do with this child even if it is his?
i totally understand my bf told me he had a child and wen the dna came back as positive i was devastated i hated that child. I know she was a child but that meant i had to see her ** of a mother and deal with her demands
Uhm, no you don't. If you're with him, that is now YOUR child, and should be treated as such. She left him, that's her fault. Either it's yours and his baby, or it's just hers and she can go ** herself. Makes it sound like I'm saying he's got to be a deadbeat dad, but he's with someone else now (you), that's her fault.
Yes, you're a bad person. Get over it.
It doesn't make you a bad person to hope it's not his. But it does make you a bad person if you hope he decides to ignore the child if it is his. He decided to have **, he fathered a child, he has to own up to the responsibility. You can either deal with that, or you can't. But you don't get to take out your jealousy on a little child.