your family doesn't like her- her tantrums and her use of the word n***** got her banned from your brother's house. your son hates her. thanks to her public outbursts and tantrums, your friends can't stand her. your guy friends tell u how beautiful I am and what a beautiful smile I have and hit on me constantly- even right in front of u. Your ex wife told u not to let me get away. Yet it's never me. 'SHE'S' the one u worry about, pine for and chase after. What in God's name do I need with another guy who's not happy unless he's being treated like s***?