I love older men, is that wrong?

I'm a 20 year old college girl. I love having relationships with older men, like 35 or older. I would never, ever have an affair with a married man. I don't have a low self esteem, and I don't have "daddy" issues. If these relationships are perfectly healthy, is it wrong for me to be attracted to older men?

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  • I to date much older men;. The first two years in college I grew further and further away from guys my age and I was at work one night and a guy asked me just to go have dinner with him and nothing else. He treated me like a queen and he asked me for a second date and I went with him again. It was like the 7th date he actually made a move onto me and we ended up having s** for the first time in nearly a year for me but he put me before himself and made sure I enjoyed it as much or if not more than he did and when we climaxed together that cinched the deal for me. We dated for nearly a year and he got transferred way out of state with his job and we fell apart after a year.
    Since that time I have dated several older me and every one treats me the same way. Gads when are 20 year olds going to wake up and smell the roses?

  • If you ask the question, "is that wrong?" You already know the answer.

  • I'm the same way. I stopped being attracted to people my own age in my teens. I've been dating older and older as time goes on.

  • Nahh, I'm 15 and I'm attracted to men 35 and older, too. Only movie stars, though, but still. H***, one of the guys I like is in his 60's!

    So yeah, just putting it in perspective for you... there's nothing all that strange about it, as long as you don't get too creepy. Besides, I'm sure there's plenty of older men who'd love to meet a young lady who actually wants them, LOL.

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