Secret Crush

I am secretly attracted and have feelings for my best friend of many years. I know he doesnt feel the same for a fact. I have tried to put these feelings away but they still persist and are keeping me from moving on with my own life. We also live together. I have been in therapy and told i am codependent. What to do?

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  • As hard as it sounds, and it sucks big time, emotionally you have to let go of him.
    Move into your own place and find someone else to focus your affection can still stay best friends, just each with your own lives.
    If you continue on your current trend, you're only going to be more miserable in the end.

    It's YOU time now...

    Time for a change.

  • I would love to but he would not allow me too. he is not into me. but i can not control my attraction to him

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