In love with husbands best friend

Me and my husband have been married for 9 years, together 10. I met his best friend at the same time I met my husband. He tried to get my number and I turned him down. Months later me and my future husband were in a serious relationship. Fast forward a couple of years, my husbands best friend started hanging around our house a lot and spending the night. Somewhere along the way I developed feelings for him and one drunken night, I acted on them. I wrote him a poem through a FB honesty app knowing he would never know who sent it. Unfortunately, my husband started to sense something wrong and asked if there was anything I needed to tell him. I told the truth. Later that night, my husband called his best friend over and had a sit down with both of us. He told his friend that I was the one who wrote the message and explained that I expressed that I liked him in a non-sexual way. Afterwards my husband and his friend went off alone to discuss the situation. I was so embarrassed! Since then we moved out of state and it has been about 7 years since this situation. My husband and I'm sure his friend as well, thinks I'm over the feelings, but I am not. I think about him every day and night. I feel like the situation was never finalized and I don't know if the feelings were mutual. I feel like there is some type of connection between us that I cannot fight. I wish I could reach out to him and ask.


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  • Why don't you contact him and find out? Drive back to where he lives and declare yourself? What are you waiting for? Find out if he shares your feelings, or if he just wants to give you the roll you need?

  • You sound like a sly who wants her husband's friend's d***

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