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how can I tell?
I'm a 21 yr old bi guy and I have a crush on a dude at college who I suspect may be bi or gay too, but I'm not sure. I kinda get that vibe from him but I may be wrong and it'd be embarassing to hit on a straight guy. How can I tell for sure? Or should I just bite the bullet and tell him?
Honesty is the best policy. If you're okay with others knowing your sexual orientation to both women and men, then tell him of your attraction to him. Don't play guessing games. Worse case scenarios are that he will either tell you he is straight or simply not interested. Perhaps he finds you attractive too! Be brave and share your your feelings with him.
Ask him out for coffee.
If he goes for it, talk to him.
Touch his hand, look at him and smile.
Straight blokes will pull their hand away like yours is red hot.
^This man is wise OP he has been gay his whole life, and really knows what he is talking about!