He and I met 9 years ago at chruch. I

He and I met 9 years ago at chruch. I still remember that moment when we were introduced by his sister, when we're shaking hands, that moment, a pic of two old couples sitting side by side showed up in my head. We were just friends. Then, he left CA and work in DC, we still kept in touch by e-mails, but not very often. But, i do think of him very often. He always has a place in my heart. Whenever I meet a new guy, I think of him. After all these years, a year ago. We met again and this time we found a spark of love between us. We fell in love. At first, it was very sweet. But we have a hugh problem. We live in different continents, it's hard to keep a intimate relationship. Although we've known each other for so long, our relationship is falling apart. I am sad. I don't want to lose him but it seems like he doesn't care about me at all or even mad at me. I don't know how to be friends with him again. I love him wholeheartedly. Maybe I am too serious w/ him. Ended up my heart is broken. I pray that God will sustain me. I still believe in true love. I hope if we are meant to be together, the time will come. I just need to wait patiently.

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  • You'll find someone else, but meanwhile, don't be h****** yourself and move on!

  • There is nothing wrong with keeping in touch with him, just be sure you are not hung up him. You can still be friends, because who knows, maybe in the future, the timing (and location) will be right. For now, move on and explore other options.

  • I am sorry but I understand the hardest part is letting go. Hurt over the past memory of something good. The past when you were young is now marred by the present situation. So now even his memory is bad which is the hardest because you now have neither. Time will tell however so far away will never help. Again I am sorry.

  • I happen to be in the exact situation. A part of me says I need to tell him how I feel but another says I shouldn't, then ask myself if I don't will I ever find closure. Am I going to spend the rest of my life pining for something that isn't meant to be? Fear is the only thing that is stopping me from coming out in the open but one day I am going to just let it all out. It is better to lose your pride to someone that you love than to lose someone you love because of pride.

  • Girl, I went through almost the same thing...MOVE ON...he's not coming back...SORRY

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