My inlaws are therapy and

My inlaws are therapy and "anonymous"junkies.They can pick out everyone elses problems and tell them how to solve them but refuse to face their own.My MIL is bent on being positive ALL THE TIME.Nice way of staying in denial. They abused their kids in every way imaginable but have conveniently forgotten.Their anonymous meetings tell them that they arent accountable.Now I have to try to pry my hubby out of the anonymous cult. They have duped my husband into believing that they are soooo supportive...like wet tissue.They never phone,hubby calls them at least once a week,they never visit,and when we visit all they do is complain that we did something to their house on the last visit...when we didnt.MIL has chosen to use me as her whipping boy. I cant do anything right in her eyes.She has 2 other DIL's and a SIL,naturally it must be us wrecking their hovel of a house....yes it must be us we visit an entire 2 times per year. We actually clean her pig stye...that would be a criminal offence in her eyes. you have no choice but to clean it or you cant get access to a sink.The black mould growing up the wall is a lovely touch. Being expected to wash baby bottles in a slimy sink was a nightmare unto itself.My husband wants approval from people who will never approve. This whole family is so messed up.I cant wait to get a divorce.By the time I'm done ripping the skeletons out of the closet they will never see my kids again.

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  • as bad as I feel for the kids, I'm rooting for you. my own mum did (and still does) the same thing. i think she incites mental disease in the people around her. talk about counter-productive.
    A LOT of parents suck. Break the cycle!!!!!

  • A LOT of parents suck. Break the cycle!!!!!

  • as bad as I feel for the kids, I'm rooting for you. my own mum did (and still does) the same thing. i think she incites mental disease in the people around her. talk about counter-productive.

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