guy advice
i have liked the same guy for almost 5 years i have always hoped we would finally starting dating. when i first met him he had a girlfriend so we were just friends. they broke up and he started speaking to me a lot more one time he told me he couldnt move on since he was stlil in love with his ex so i backed off. i dont even know if he likes me we have only hung out a few times in the past year. last night i invited him out and he said he would drop by. i sent him a message the day before and did not get any response. next week is his birthday kegger in which theres almost 70 people going with whom i dont know anyone except for him. do i go? or do i just forget about him? it seems i am always the one making the effort to hang out and to see him and he doesnt really do anything. i think it might be time for me to let him go i dont want to but i really dont know whats left for me to do. desperate for opinions and advice please:)
Best would be to say to him 'call me', but don't expect the call, write him off as not interested that way and move on.