When my boyfriend (of 7 years, now)

When my boyfriend (of 7 years, now) goes to touch me or try to get me hot while in bed, it freaks me out. It doesn't feel good anymore. I pretend like it's simply tickling me, but it's actually upsetting me. I know he's beyond frustrated, but continues to accept it, I guess. I do get aroused by things -- fantasies, good looking men and women, etc. -- but can't bring myself to actually get physical. The last time we tried to have s**, I was so rigid and nervous that it was incredibly painful when he finally put it in...but it felt as if I was having s** with my Dad or something and I ended it after only a few seconds. It was unbearable. I have no idea why I've become this way and miss the great s** we used to have.

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  • Were you molested or something? If not you are seriously screwed up.

  • M********* and post pictures.

  • yea this happend to me and my ex fiance, i used to have s** with him cos i felt bad for him then i began to resent that then i avoided it all together then the thought of it made me sick and i couldnt even watch s** on tv, i didnt let him near me for a year hoping hed break it off cos i felt too guilty, in the end we did break up whano regrets. once the s** has gone i dont think you can get it back.

  • sounds like you have a new dislike of him, something about him just finally got to you and now you dont want him physically

  • kill yourself,

  • I this problem particular to him, or do you think its a growing problem within yourself. If its him, you need to talk about where your relationship is going, because in the long term, its going to fail.

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