I'm a 26-year-old virgin by choice and I'm getting married in less than two months. In the past I've always had a strong s** drive, but from the moment I got engaged it started waning. As time goes on, I have less and less interest in ever having s** or engaging in the kissing and foreplay I used to enjoy. I really love my fiancé and can't imagine my life without him, but I am so terrified that I will feel violated when we have s**. I really wish I could tell him that I don't ever want to have s**, but that's not fair to him and I don't want to lose him. It's all so depressing.