Can't stop thinking about him...

I have feelings for my coworker, I can't stop thinking about him, I dream about him, I fanatsize about him, I want to blurt it out every time I am around him. He is 2 years younger than me, has no ambitions other than staying in the same position he is in now, and has probably never had a girlfriend. I got out of a long term relationship and am just starting to date again. I date other guys, but all I can think about is my co-worker, he makes me c.d.s, we go to lunch together all the time and text each other on our days off, but I don't know if he feels the same and I don't know if I want to risk telling him if he doesn't feel the same way. Plus it's risky no matter what because we work together, but if I don't tell him I am afraid I will regret it...

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  • Go for drinks and ask him how he feels towards you, or get in a situation where you give him a hug followed by a. quick kiss on the lips and look into his eyes and see if anything follows from that

  • Wow, this sounds like a woman I work with. I've been friendly with her and she's been treating me like her little gay friend but at the same time sort of coming on to me. But I'm not gay and she's a little too overweight for me. If I get drunk with her we'll probably end up in bed.

  • You have already established a relationship with him that is headed toward a more intimate conclusion. I don't know why he isn't making the move to close that deal but it could have to do with the fact he has never had a girlfriend. You need to get him in a setting that more opens the door to that and put yourself out there with hints.

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