I had a 16 year when I was 20

When I was 20, I had s** with a 16 year-old girl. We were both drunk and she was the assertive one. She was attractive and sexually experienced; a few weeks later she told me that she had had s** with three other partners. I was a virgin and my relationship ended with my prior girl without us having s**, leaving me heart broken and frustrated. The 16 year-old and I went out for about 6 months, and we became close, and clicked in a lot special ways. In the end, though, I was still incredibly guilty and ended up distancing myself from her one day when we were hanging out by telling her how going out with her was a complete 180 from the type of person I was before. I did everything right and was always considered the nice guy who girls were safe around, now I was breaking the law and it was killing me. The 16 year-old said we were a 'good thing,' that she felt safe around me, that I was the first guy she clicked with, and she cried; I had never seen her cry before. In a different place I would have stayed with her, because I loved her. We did not hang out much after that and she found a new boyfriend pretty quickly. It is four years later, so no one can charge me now. I have been on dates but I have not had s** since. I still feel dirty and unworthy. Other than this, I have a good and caring person.

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  • Okay, it happened. Move on and go and live your life. It's not like you are combing the high schools now searching for underage girls. Quit the blame game. You didn't know how old she was. You deserve to be in a happy relationship. You owe it to yourself to say you're worth it. Go and talk with someone, it may help resolve some of your issues.

  • I knew who old she was. I just let it happen. After my first relationship and believing in true love, then missing my shot with that girl, I just wanted a girl to have s** with; I didn't care who it was. Anyways, thanks. I'm trying to convince myself that I served my time. That's why I'm confessing.

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