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I think i am a lesbian
I am a female and divorced. Since I was in my teens, I always liked to look at women and theirbodies but I never had a desire to want to kiss or be with one. I always dated men, got married in my 20's and am now 40 and divorced. My husband was a cheater.
After my divorce, I am finding the desire to be with a woman growing stronger every day.
I am in conflict with my religious beliefs that say homosexuality is wrong. My family are conservative christians and if I ever admitted I had lesbian desires, they would say it is wrong. I know if I got into a relationship with a woman and told my family, I would be disowned.
I am very close to my family and siblings and do not want to be exlcuded because of this.
I enjoy being with men but also desire being with women too. Am I bisexual?
You are a religious person and must think that God make everyone of us. If he did not like homosexuals, the most easy solution would be not make them. Think that nature make us very good but always with some variations. There are people of different colors and it does not mean that are bad. Gender preference is in the gens and is totally natural. If your family do not accept you, look for your happiness. Not more to do.
Homosexuality isn't wrong. Your family are bible-thumping redneck crazies. Embrace who you really are. You will feel liberated and the bible-thumping crazies will eventually get over it.