i am a 17 year old girl, i like this

i am a 17 year old girl, i like this guy and claims he likes me he is so sweet and funny he's in a band...he's like my other half, we both know it. we had a thing going for a couple weeks, but we never actually admitted how much we felt for eachother and were never officially dating. even though i could tell he liked me (dedicating songs to me on stage, buying me stuff, calling me every other hour, inviting me to hang out all the time..the list goes on and on) we had so much fun together. i was sick for 3 days and couldn't talk on the phone or anything, basically there was no contact for 3 days, when i finally talked to him he told me he was officially going out with this girl (she's completley unnattractive) ashlee, he told me that he still likes me alot, and wanted to officialy be with me, but says he can't get out of the relationship he's only been in 2 days, i confessed that i really liked him too. im trying to understand if he was unaware that i liked him, or scared i would say no, and because i didnt call him for a couple days, in his mind did that alone seal the deal that i wasnt interested? i really need advice more than anything, i really like this guy, and might love him. and i don't want to just be like "well if you can't choose between us, then forget any chance of a future together" ................help.

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  • Maybe he thought that you being sick was some way for you to stop hanging out with him. So he went out with this girl to actually see if you still liked him/to clarify the feelings.Or to like,see what you would do to be without him.
    S**** him. If he wasn't good enough to wait for 3 days, he doesn't deserve to spend 1 day with you.

  • you don't love him, you sound like you're 12 years old, you're too old for thinking like this. if he could start going out with another girl within 3 days, then obviously he never liked you that much. save youself some heartache and find someone better.

  • ^ yes that is true!

  • you're 17. you are way too young to be dwelling on some guy. in my experience, guys usually have a "back up girl" in case things don't work out with the girl they are dating. could that be you? and don't forget, people say a lot of things that they don't mean. look at what their actions tell you. and this guys actions tell me he's full of it. you're too good for that.

  • Ok look sit this guy down and tell him how you feel and if he gives you that lame excuse about he can't get out of his less than a month old relationship then he's not the one for you. That's ridiculous. If he felt half way the same about you as you do him then while you were sick he would have been over there trying to see about you. So talk to him and make sure he knows that you are very serious about dating him so he doesn't have the excuse that he didn't know. And then if he still insist on being with the other girl then you know he isn't worth it.

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  • S**** him.
    If he wasn't good enough to wait for 3 days, he doesn't deserve to spend 1 day with you.

  • Maybe he thought that you being sick was some way for you to stop hanging out with him. So he went out with this girl to actually see if you still liked him/to clarify the feelings.Or to like,see what you would do to be with him.

  • He sounds like a d***, forget him. If he would do something like that, then he's not special enough for you.

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