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Married but in love with a girl
I am 40, married with 3 kids and hopelessly in love with a younger woman..I am besotted with her. Can't stop thinking about her but can't tell anyone except you..
I think about her endlessly!
If you don't do anything else --- even if nothing happens to consummate the affair --- you really must tell the girl, so that (a) you don't go through your entire life regretting not telling another human being that you love her, and (b) she doesn't go through her entire life not knowing that someone loves her. Do it calmly, do it without expecting her to respond (or even asking her to), but do it soon.
I've been there, and it's exciting. Thrilling, really. Mine didn't turn out all that well (short affair; I wanted much much more), but that doesn't mean that it can't turn out exactly like you want it to turn out. GO FOR IT!