I was abused

Many years ago I was drugged and sexually abused. I naturally felt violated and lost confidence in being in the company of men. After a few months I met someone. He made me feel safe. I took those feelings as being love. He waited for months before we had s**. He made me comfortable.

Now, all these years later, I realise how different we are. Our wants in life are so different. I don't know now how much love there actually is. Or ever was. He does not please me sexually. I crave to be loved. I crave to be desired.

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  • Thats just relationships some work and some dont, some just take time to burn out. Its a good sign to talk about it with your husband. If you cant come to some kind of compromise on BOTH sides of it, and work towards a resolution, then consider moving on and finding someone else.

  • you might as well share this with your husband....you have nothing to lose now...do it in a letter...you are braver than me

  • well, if he dosen't please you or your having second thoughts then maybe you two should end things. just an idea...

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