My bf and i have had some problems lately and he is always a j***.. when he drinks he tends to say mean things and act like he dont love me. I was always told that when you drink your true feelings come out. i ahve been trying to fix this problem for sometime but i always seem to forgive him and the hurtful things he says/does when he is drunk. But i guess my way of getting revenge or feeling fine about it is talking to guys behind his back. i would never go any further than talking to other guys but i lovvvee lovee the feeling i get doing this. even though i know its wrong.