Maid of Honor
My best friend asked me today to be her maid of honor.
I hate the guy she wants to marry.
He fights with her about the dumbest things constantly, he's already cheated on her, he's very much into drugs and alcohol, he's given her an std. Besides that, they have only known each for about eight months.
She already told me she didn't want to get married and now suddenly she wants to.
She's carrying his child, so I think that has a lot to do with why she agreed to get married.
I want to tell her no. No to being maid of honor and no to even being at the wedding.
But I'm afraid if I tell her that, she will never speak to me again and I won't even be allowed to visit with her kids. I love them so much, I couldn't bare it if I wasn't allowed to see them.
I've known her since I was a year old. She's like a sister to me.
What should I do?