I refuse to wear heels in my sister's wedding!
My older sister (28) is getting married and she asked me to be her ‘Maid of Honor’. I didn’t want to at first because ‘Maid of Honor’ sounds aristocratic and demeaning! WTF!
The prestigious title also comes with responsibility! WTF! It’s not my F**king wedding plan your own S**T! I’m also supposed to help dress her on her ‘big F**king day!’. F that! My parents are also paying for everything too! My mom bought me a pair of Christian Louboutin Rose Amelie heels to wear. Who wears F**king heels! They also plan for me to get a pedi with them the day before the wedding!
This is too much! Why do I have to wear what someone else want’s me to wear just because it’s ‘her big day’.
I told him I’m not going to the spa the day before or wearing those ridiculous shoes! My sister turned into Bridezilla and is p*****! Mom’s mad because the shoes were expensive and she can’t return them!
I vented to my professor. She totally agrees with me and said why do people think they can use old traditions to force other people to things they don’t want to do. She advised me to ‘do what I want to do even if it makes them mad.’ She told me to 'stand firm, do not conform to the norm and resist'. She said I need to refuse to be in the wedding unless they change my title to “Sister of the Bride” NOT “Maid of Honor”. She said I can help change the world.
I did. Now Bridezilla doesn’t want me in the wedding and her ‘Maid of Honor’ is now her BFF.
I couldn’t be happier!