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I am a nymphomaniac
I am a nymphomaniac, and it's not destroying my relationship with my boyfriend but it's cause a lot of tension. However, I have been this way since the first time I ever masturbated. Every since the first time I became addicted. When I first had **, it was amazing. Then I wanted more and more. I wouldn't stop because of the feelings it had responded to with my body. Now 20, and all I think about is ** ** **. I feel like I have a real problem, and I don't know how to control it anymore.
Any advice would be better then none.
Just a stage in everyone's life, one day you will change your feelings. I never met a ** person in my life who stayed **.
Do you want ** more often than your boyfriend? There are girls who have stronger ** drives than a lot of guys.
If you are not satisfied with the amount of ** you get in your relationship, perhaps you are not well matched as a couple. I cannot say about that, you will have to decide.
If you really feel this is a problem there is always ** addicts anonymous. You can at least "share notes" with others and see if you really have as big a problem as you believe you do.
It might be that you simply have a high ** drive, and you need to find someone else who does also. If you stay in a poorly matched relationship, you will be frustrated and tempted to have affairs outside the relationship.
You'd get better help if you say more about "I think I have a problem"
For instance, is the problem how much time you spend thinking about **? Is it creating tension of fear within your relationship ? Do you have urges to act out that would damage or destroy your relationships or lifestyle ?
Not much I can help you. But a word of advice:
You're not the only one.
I've always felt that a good definition of addiction is when it interferes with other aspects of your life. For example, have you ever called in sick to work so you could **? Have you missed important social or family events? Do you neglect household chores or even personal hygeine? If so then you may have a problem.