So, I'm a 22-year-old female Navy sailor. I'm also a virgin and don't really know how to deal with guys hitting on me, especially when I know they're married or just looking for s** (or both). It's not like I'm trying to wait for marriage or The One. I just want actually care and TRUST a guy before I go and have s** with them. And since masturbating keeps me more or less satisfied, I don't see the point of hopping into bed with someone I don't trust. And it's really hard for me to trust a guy since I was molested by my stepbrother when I was a child and almost raped by my uncle when I was a teenager.
Any advice on how to deal with these married, h**** sailors trying to get in my pants?