I am a loser and know it. It started in my early tweenties and from there on it has been loserville for me. I like my life in some ways but I can't find a wife or girlfriend for the life of me. I am in the greatest country in the world with the best people but not one girl shows me she wants to be with me.

It's sad but most people don't understand where I am coming from because they have never been in my position.

I am still a virgin and most likely will be till 65-70 when I die.

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  • We could start a Loser Club as I also fit that bill . . . being a 64-year-old single dork who has only had s** once in my life; losing my virginity when I was 31-years-old to a woman who felt sorry for me. No s** since, 33 years and counting. How embarrassing!

  • I'm in the same boat with you.

  • You are not trying hard enough. Meet enough people and you will find a match. Make sure you meet basic requiements: a job, personality, hobbies, a mind and some confidence. Stop calling yourself a loser. Nothing kills excess like kicking yourself while you're down. Do something that inspires YOU that gives you confidence, builds your ego and motivates you to go find some game. Good luck and Keep Looking UP.

  • The Bible says "You shall have the fruit of your lips". Stop cursing yourself. Why do you think the Bible says "I will praise the Lord at all times - His praise shall ever be on ml lips"? Praise brings Jesus near you, and with Him comes blessing. Cry out to Jesus Christ of Nazareth, and ask Him to save you, both in this world, and the world to come. Then start thanking Him (even if you don't yet see the manifestation) for the good things He is doing for you. It wouldn't hurt if you attended a Bible-believing church for serious Bible study, so that you can learn what the heck is going on not only for you, but for the rest of the world as well. God bless you. God is going to do GREAT things FOR YOU!

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