He said he might 'frighten' me sexually...
I've been seeing this guy for a little while now- nothing serious, we text most days and see each other once a week but he hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend and I haven't asked him to be my boyfriend. Boyfriend isn't the right word. He's older than me and very masculine.
He's just over six feet tall, dark hair, tanned. Very muscular- works out with weights a few days a week and plays two sports, goes running. Very strong. There's been a couple of times he's been passionate to the point of being rough- I haven't slept with him yet, but he'll push me down onto a sofa or against a wall and physically hold me there, almost forcing me to kiss him. He likes being in control. He likes spanking- he hasn't turned me over his knee or anything, but it's obvious he's had practise at that. I dislike being spanked- I'm a woman, not a child.
Now and then he hints or says outright that he would like to sleep with me, although he tends to use gentler terms. Last night was the first time he used the word 's**' or 'sexual.'
In his nicer moments he's lovely but I've been thinking for a little while he's a closet control freak or even a Dominant. Last night he said I might be 'scared of him sexually'. He might 'frighten me'. I told him I'd kinda worked out that he was capable of being intimidating. He said I might be scared at first but he would 'take care of me'.
Should I run like h***, or stay?