I Hate To Want You

I am married but I also love my best friend. The problem is I want my cake an eat it too. I want my husband and him and I want us to live happily ever after.

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  • Having cake and eating it is what makes life so great. I say: go for it!!

  • If you think you're going to get your husband to knowingly go along with your plan, you're kidding yourself: there's no way he's going to agree to you sharing yourself and your body and your love and your sexuality with another man. You're going to have to keep the boyfriend on the side, but he's not likely going to want to stay there forever. So, you have to do one of two things: either (1) enjoy the affair for as long as you can (until the husband discovers it, or the lover tires of waiting), or (2) be a f****** grownup and make a f****** decision about what AND WHO you want. For now, you're just living in a dreamworld.

  • You can't all live happily ever after together. But you absolutely CAN continue both the marriage and the affair for as long as both relationships are satisfying you and exciting you and supporting you. AND YOU SHOULD.

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