I am engaged to be married to a

I am engaged to be married to a wonderful guy. Two months until the wedding day to "Dan" Now when I was in College - I had a very wild summer- and Fall for that matter. I went to this bar - and hooked up with a number of different guys. I had a competiton with a friend - about guys buying drinks - and how many kisses we could get a night....and indeed - I had s** with many of them. Safe s**...I insisted.

Dan does not know that in that 6 month period alone I had 23 partners - and a many more guys that I made out with. My college was the other side of the country to where I am now. Dan thinks I have had only 6 partners....it is about 30 more than that. I am not sure if I should tell him.

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  • No, do not tell him. What would be the purpose of telling him????? If you know he is a good guy, and you are ready to be faithful, marry him! It is maybe a good thing that you got this out of your system before your married!

  • Sure, tell him. Then cancel the wedding 'cause that's way more than "sloppy seconds".

  • Lies definitely catch up with you. I'm sure there's something he's hid too...and maybe if you confess this, he'll feel more comfortable coming forward about whatever it is he hasn't felt comfortable telling you to this point.

  • What you did while single is really no ones business. However if he asks you and you lie then the "lie" becomes an issue.
    30 guys is alot , but you where single, but lies are never a good thing as they will catch up with you.

  • Don't tell him, it's none of his damn business, and everyone sleeps around in college, and you're naive if you think Dan hasn't done it too.

  • You shouldn't marry Dan - you're not ready for marriage.
    & I hate to say it, but its your own damn fault for sleeping with so many people. You're a s*** - & I'm sure your whole college knows it after being with 30 guys.

  • Don't.

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