I love Brian. Let me start with that. We have been dating for a year and a half and I can't see myself being with anyone else. I love him.


Next year he is going to college in Australia. For 3 years. Im going to try to make it work but I'm nervous that it won't.

Here is where it gets bad.

I have been hanging out with Cam a lot lately, and we have become close friends. I sont know everything about him and he doesn't know everything about me, and that's fine. He fights with his girlfriend all the time and I can't help but feel somewhat respiratory because I see him more than she does, even though I can figure out it has nothing to do with me.

I have a crush on Cam. I won't go so far as to say I like him-- that's too much. But I have a crush on him.

I don't know what to do. I like spending time with him, and we're both dating someone, and I'm sure he'd never be interested in me. But I'm worried I'm going to mess up something by thinking like this.

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  • Stop obsessing over the names you put on what you feel. Just go with the flow and experience as many different relationships as may come your way. Life is short. Too short to waste on fretting over whether you "like" or "love" or have a "crush". As they say, worry is interest paid on a debt that never comes due. Lighten up.

  • Contrary to what you may think, these decisions aren't life and death. Enjoy your youth. Enjoy your men. Enjoy s**.

  • Miley Cyrus? That's a man, baby!

  • Fake as f***.

  • Yep, she really is. Everybody thinks she's a woman. But in reality . . . that's a man, baby!

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