I am in love with a man who has been in

I am in love with a man who has been in a committed relationship for over two years. The worst part is he says he loves me too. I am just getting out of a long term relationship myself and was really not looking to be in any new relationships or date again for a while. However, we cannot pick and choose who or when we fall in love. This man happens to be a very good friend of mine as well. I have known him for a little over a year and we are very close. Too close it seems. I am not really sure how I want to precede. He is very confused and troubled himself about the whole situation. He claims to love his girlfriend as well, but I feel as if he looks to me to say leave her for me. I am not really willing to say this because I feel as if he and I would not be a long term thing. I do doubt if I am correct about that because I am just getting out of a relationship and I thought the person I was with was the one. I wonder if maybe I am just not ready to accept the idea of someone else being the one for me as yet. I would cut off all contact with him, but as I said he is a very good friend of mine and I am in a spot where I could use as many friends as possible. The only problem is that he insists on talking about how he feels for me. Part of me would love to be with him. I am at a loss.


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  • Yeah move on sweety....
    he's a cheater.
    u and ur x just broke up. u need to give it lots of time b4 movin on 2 another guy.
    goooood luck

  • I don't think it'll work out. Sorry.

  • Well, if he's prepared to leave HER for YOU, then guess what? YOU are probably dispensable also.

  • In a way I sorta agree with the first commenter. I think you should pull back and wait a while. Then if you both still feel the same way then try it. But for now just chill.

  • It won't work out, he's just looking for some new p****.

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