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I am a husband and father, been married for 15 years. About 8 yrs ago my niece starting flirting with me, I had a weak moment and kissed her. She would flash me and I was close to having s** with a 16 year old. I did not do it and became uncomfortable around her. She has moved on but as she grew up I fell in love with her, she does not know and never should I an almost 45 and to old for her. I have been obsessed with her for years now and thought if I told her anonymously I loved her it would help. Well I texted her and my wife found out. I am getting divorce and niece hates me for letting cat out of bag. My nieces father works for me and filed complaint to Hr and I expect to lose my job. I have been thinking of killing myself my world has fallen apart I just don't know what to do. I have 7000 units of lantus insulin and hoping that will end it

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  • Your work has nothing to do with this. You will not lose your job, or if you do you can sue the pants off them. You did not do anything with anyone at work - her father is just p***** at you.

    Don't kill yourself. Make an appt with a therapist. Talking to someone will help.

    If your wife will divorce you over texting your niece, she was just looking for an excuse to get rid of you. Yes, it was a mistake, but its not like you f***** her.

  • F*** off you c***

  • God is willing to forgive you through His son Jesus Christ. His grace is sufficient for you. Seek Him and you will find Him. Read John 3

  • I feel sorry for you. Good luck in the future

  • Flirting with your niece was stupid. Flirting with a 16 year old even dumber and holding a flame for her. Your niece hates you because you completely embarrassed her and most likely disgusted her. All actions have their own consequences. Losing your family and job are most likely your punishment. Got to deal with it. However, killing yourself is not the solution to anything..EVER. You made a mistake that pretty much changed your life. But killing yourself would change your children's lives. What can you do? Learn and move on from this. Be a good father to your children. Apologize for your inappropriate actions to your family and go find another job. Maybe even speaking to a therapist can help. You are very lucky that further charges weren't brought up against you. You could be thinking about this behind a jail cell. So be thankful that you can move forward and think more about how you conduct yourself.

  • Stupid f****** c***

  • Wow...wish you would shut up. If you have nothing positive to add,,,,just don't comment.

  • :) I like you. Definitely on the better side on here.

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