so me and my boyfriend, well we are
so me and my boyfriend, well we are young. 18 and 19yrs old. everyone says to wait to get married and wait to have kids. we have been together for almost a year now. and i know that he is it for me. we live together and have a puppy <3
i really do love him and i want to be his wife and the mother of his children. the only bad thing is that we dont really have the money to have kids right now, but we want to have them young, because he wants his kids to know his dad. his dad is an amazing dad/g-pa. he never knew his grandparents and wants his children to know theirs. so i dont know what to do. i want to move from our house to a different one, so i just dont know what to do. i am going to school in a couple of months so i am not at a dead end job for the rest of my life, and so i do something i love. i just am not so sure what i want to do. everyone tells me if i am going to be with him for the rest of my life, then why rush into everything. but i say if i am going to be with him for the rest of my life why wait.
my parents were divorced when i was 11 so i know what divorced parents feels like. i know i dont want to put my future children through that, so i want to make sure that i am 100% positive that the man i marry is the one, and i have no doubts that we will be together forever and happily. so idk what to say.
i just dont know why everyone says to wait if i know that i know that i know....i just dont know