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I am afraid of what is happening to my body
My husband and I are trying to have a baby, but I am afraid I am starting menopause...
I am afraid we will never have a child together and that makes me so angry because that is the one thing his ex still has of his that I may never have...
Adoption is definitely an option. But so is IVF and you don't know for sure that you are starting menopause. As we age, our cycles go through crazy changes. Research anything and everything and stay positive. Freeze your eggs or even look into surrogacy. Do any and all necessary tests. Look into all your options. Having a child isn't a competition and whatever your journey is..is between you and your husbands. His ex his past and you should never compare yourself to her.
Just adopt a baby. The human population is out of control as it is, so stop trying to make more. There are plenty of unwanted children in the world that would love to have a good home.