Not a confession but seeking advice

How can I empower myself to leave this relationship?

Each time a huge possibility of us breaking up occurs, I freak out and somehow persuade him otherwise, even though logically I know it is probably for the best.

I do love him but it doesn't seem right for us to be together. He always has too much going on and I NEED time/attention, which I am not getting from him. He isn't a bad guy, but the emotional neglect is strong with this one.

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  • Try to keep in mind that these online relationships are VIRTUAL relationships & nothing more.. If you don't get that, look up the word virtual.. Digital relationships are ludicrous..

  • Here's a suggestion: go to therapy for yourself and examine in detail why you continue in this relationship. Another option for you is to journal daily about the relationship for a 3 month period, weighing the pros and cons of it. And at the end of 3 months, vow to make a decision to either stay or go, and stick to it. Good luck.

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