Will I ever find love?

I have extreme difficulty connecting with women. I have never had a girlfriend. I am no longer a young man. I am worried that I am just too far gone. The only reason that I didn't ask out the last woman who I felt very strongly for was that I thought she was too attractive for me. The last time I worked with her, I said goodbye and she actually looked very sad to see me go. But I couldn't help but tell myself that she was too attractive for me. It makes me feel lousy about myself to this very day. She was always very sweet and kind to me. I don't know if I will ever see her again, but I want to at least be with someone who I care about more than I care about myself. I want someone who makes feel like I can be a better person than who I have been in the past.

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  • I was one of those shallow women that based love on looks, but I now know that that was stupid of me. My guy now feels like you do. He thinks I'm too sexy for him. But the truth is he is the best lover I have ever had. No one has ever made my body feel so good. I am crazy for my man I'm just so glad he asked me out and I was smart enough to say yes. So don't give in to your insecurities. Not all of us are shallow. And you might be surprised. I say look her up and see if she still acts the same, if yes don't wait any longer. Take a chance good luck

  • I think that you should keep up your standards. If you thought that woman was too attractive for you it`s because that`s her defining quality: beauty.
    She may be not ugly inside but she may be shallow.
    Belive in your instincts.

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