I wear depends just in case. Rarely use them. I find though that the need to go comes on really quickly. Today I was waylaid by a work colleague on my way to the toilet. Usually I excuse myself and go to the toilet and come back. This time I listened to her question and found myself distracted by my bladder. I figured this is why I wear them and so I just wet myself. Sounds so disgusting doesn't it. Then I was wet but no longer trying to hold it. At the end of the conversation I just returned to my desk no longer needing to go to the toilet. Now I am sitting here feeling the bulk that has swollen up between my legs and distracted in a different way. So weird that I am.