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More than a little scared, to be honest
My best friend from high school called this week saying she's about to leave her husband because she's sure he's going to kick her out eventually for cheating on him with a guy he works with and that was in their wedding. She lives in another state and has no friends or family there and wants to come and stay with me and my husband until she lands somewhere permanently. I want to help her, but she's already cheated on her husband with a friend of theirs, and I'm afraid that if she moves in here even for a little while she'll probably try to get with MY husband: she's always cheated on the men in her life, even from high school. I haven't told her yes or no yet, just that I have to talk to Michael about it.
Don't do it!! Be supportive emotionally and be a good friend because obviously she's never given you reason to think she'd do anything to you but I would not put that temptation in front of her. Help her in any way at all, EXCEPT allowing her to stay with you, even one night. Just one night would make it difficult to deny her staying longer.
I hope you didn't. Many years ago, I worked with a girl who had a year old child and a husband and she let her best friend who also had a child about the same age move in. Well she doesn't have a husband anymore.
I wouldn't.
Keep her out, your other relative who just got displaced has to come and there will be no room. You'll regret it otherwise
I think you're almost certainly right. "Regret" is a word that keeps coming to my mind. Thanks.
Forget Michael and eat her out.
LOL. :) She and I never did that, although I tried it with a few girls while I was in college. I didn't hate it, but it wasn't my thing. Thanks for the smile. :)
You can be her friend and help her, but be very clear with her about boundaries and rules in your home. Sure, she's going through a tough time but she brought this on herself. She can ruin her life and family, you need to protect yours. She needs to have a plan and you need to figure out how long you are comfortable with allowing her to stay in your home.