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I hate my step daughter...
My step daughter is only 5 years old. I have been with her father for 2 years. Every time she comes over for it puts me in a bad mood. Everything she does annoys me. I know she is just a child but if I'm being totally honest I wish she was never born. She is actually a pretty good kid but her mother has caused so many problems in our lives it makes me wish my step daughter didn't exist. We would have money if she didn't exist because our money wouldn't go to my husbands ex or the lawyer that we have to keep on retainer because we have to go back to court so often about custody and so many other stupid **. Her mother is really a huge psycho **. Having her around is just a reminder that without her our lives would be 100 times better. I have such a hard time being around her and i don't know what to do. I don't want to leave me husband. I can't imagine my life without him. I knew he had a daughter but I didn't think it was going to be this big of a nightmare. Every time she is over I'm in a bad mood. And then my husband gets mad at me and it's really hurting our relationship. He just doesn't understand how I can feel this way. What should I do?
Sounds like your man has too much baggage that you don't need to own as well. Or, you need to decide to take on his daughter's future as one of your real priorities. If you and the dad are solid, then this girl is part of your life. And you want to make sure she is raised in a healthy way. You can find the way to make a difference in her life and she will always remember how you cared about her. Find a thing that is just yours together with her and you will start to make a bond with her and you will start to enjoy her visits more. It ** to be handed someone else's problems but you can make this into a good thing for you and for her. If you help her know that lots of grown ups are about her, then it can only make good results later on. The ultimate smile will be when she returns to her mom and has good things to say about you :))
Bake a cake with marijuana, and feed it to your husband. Anonymously call your husband's ex-wife and tell her that he is a drug addict and shouldn't be around his own child. His ex-wife will tell her lawyer who will tell the court, and they will order a drug test on your husband. He will of course fail, and the court will take away custody. Problem Solved. *flies away*
Your just so ** evil I like it.
You need to go over his knee for a dam hard spanking.
Go and get into couples counseling and even one-on-one counseling to deal with your feelings. You need to accept the simple fact that this child and the ex are apart of your family for the next 13 years. Longer for the daughter. You have to find a way to deal with your selfishness and make this marriage/family work, otherwise it's going to be really painful for you. If you're worried about money, get a job. Never take your frustrations out on this child or ever say anything negative about her mother. It doesn't matter what his ex does, She his still that child's mother. And really, if their relationship is so bad most of the arrangements should be handled by the courts. And maybe your husband should be the only one talking to her. You knew he had a child and an ex going into this. If you can't deal with it, then you're only option is to leave.
Sounds like the ex is the problem, not the kid. Maybe you should have picked someone who had less baggage. Grow up.
Stop being selfish