How do i do this?

Im a 22 year old guy who considers himself bisexual. However ive never done anything with a guy before. Not even a kiss. Im closeted about my sexuality and the main thing holding me back is the fear of my families reaction. Ive heard some family members say some bad things about homosexuality and im afraid of opening up to them. Ive met a guy at work who i feel likes me and i like him too. He's really attractive. Only problem is he seems closeted just like me. I dont know how to do this. Ive had this same exact situation before last year at work. There was this other guy who gave me really deep long stares with really big smiles and i honestly thought he might like me. I know i really liked him, like really, really liked him. So i came straight forward to him in a text message knowing ill never see him again because he had quit his job however i never got a reply from him and ive been stuck in this slump. Im honestly not happy with my sexual life right now. And i really dont want to blow it with this other guy. Can anyone give me some advice on how to get to him to know for sure he likes me before i try to make my move and make myself look like a fool like last time.

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  • I have this exact same problem.

  • You donโ€™t always have to have had experience with the same and/or opposite gender to consider yourself bi. You are how you choose to identify ๐Ÿ˜Š

  • Just talk to him. Become his friend, have a beer and chat. It should become clear.

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