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I spank my boyfriend
I found out my boyfriend had ** with my sister while I was away at a wedding. I was going to dump him but one of my best girlfriends told me to give him choice...either I leave or he submit to a spanking. He chose the spanking. I told my girlfriend and she told me she spanks her boyfriend a lot. She told me how to go about it. She loaned me the leather belt she uses and told me to make him wear a pair of my ** after I whip him. So that night he came over and I told him I knew he slept with my sister and that I was going to leave him. He started apologizing and begging me and I stopped him. I won't if you submit to a spanking. He agreed to the spanking and thought it was a joke . I ordered him to take off his jeans and bend over a chair in my living room. Then I ordered him to take off his shorts. Once he was bent over I took out the strap and told him to hold on tight and not move. I then stood behind him for a minute and then gave him a swat. You could hear the crack of the belt on his ** a block away. He yelped but I told him to shut up or he'd never get in my pants again. I then gave him 15 more really hard cracks. His ** was bright red. I told him to stand up. I then pulled a pair of my ** from my purse and ordered him to put them on. I told him they were nylon and that would cool him down. Surprisingly he didn't argue but took the ** and put them on.
About a week later I came home one night and found him at my house. I told him since he had not called he was going to be spanked. I told him to take his jeans off. H didn't argue and simply said yes I will. Then he pulled his jeans down and to my surprise he had on a pair of my **.....pink nylon bikinis. We are both the same size so they fit him well. I didn't comment on the ** but told him to bend over the chair and wait for me. I had given my girlfriend back her strap and when I did she confessed she spanks her boyfriend all the time and he likes it. So she gave me a wide leather belt to use. I went back into the living room and he was bent over the chair. I asked him if he was ready for the belt and he nodded. I then gave him five hard strokes and then told him to lower the **. He wasn't facing me. He pulled the ** down. I then gave him ten more hard swats. I told him then to stand up and face me and when he did to my surprise he had a major **. I asked him if he needed to ** and he said yes in a very tight voice. OK I told him. Follow me. I led him into the bed room and told him to lie on the bed. I then ordered him to ** off in front of me. I'd never seen a guy ** off and it was really hot. He did it once more for me about 40 minutes later. The spanking changed everything. He now wears my ** most of the time and gets regular spankings. After each one I allow him to ** but only if I can watch.
My wife since we been dating late 60s of course been spanking me across her lap on the lace of her slip and nylon stockings and Girdle just for the Fun Thrill ** Pleasure of it 80% of the time. The other 20% when I acted very naughty.
I think spanking can be very good for a relationship. On one occasion my partner and I had a disagreement that was beginning to get heated and could have developed into a major row. However instead of yelling back at me, she picked up the paddle we keep in the bedroom and said: "That's enough, bend over!" I hesitated but then obeyed and she gave me a short but firm spanking. This brought me to my senses, I apologized for yelling at her and did the household chore which had been the cause of the disagreement, rubbing my warm stinging bottom occasionally while I did it.
When my wife n I were dating Mom say to her that if I act naughty,you got my blessing spanking him. Make sure you're wearing a dress or skirt and under it a ** large lace trim slip Nylon stockings and Girdle too and spare no mercy and takes no prisoners Whacking his behind. I enjoy walloping his ** every time and you will too. Mom was 110% Right. She spanks me always over her lap.
Getting spanked is a Darn Good thing to me when my wife and I was dating. My Mom said to her that if I misbehave then spank me. That was in the late 60s when we got started. Mom encourage her to get me across her lap and Boom 💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥 especially when she wearing a dress or skirt (90+% of the time).
Chantalle34d, I love how you took control and charge of your situation I highly commend you. You are the type of women that men need more of.
I am a firm believer as a Submissive that women ought to spank their men. I am a Male Submissive. I believe in Corporal Punishment within relationships. It helps to build a stronger bond. Spankings will also help correct a man's behavior. Within the past year or so, I've fallen in love and accepted the idea of having an FLR Female Led Relationship. This is how much my Ego was shatters into destruction this year. I thought I was an masculine Alpha but I am a Submissive. I've cried many tears in accepting myself as a Submissive. When I began to feel the hurt of living a lie to myself. I forever changed. Now after coming out of the closet as a Submissive to a very close friend I've liberated and resigned that old me to the New Me. I need that loving Female Energy as both a nurturing and correcting energy.
I will always submit and surrender to, and obey women. I will honor and cherish them.
Praise to all strong women.
KLynnC77
When a woman spanks a naughty boy, it’s intimate, personal & a special way to bond! I was resided by women & spanked regularly as a “good boy “, to become a better male as I aged! It worked!!! Good luck finding a man who will admit to behaving naughty! Best regards,💥💫, Robert
Getting spanked over her lap especially when she be wearing a dress or skirt,under it a Large lace trim slip, large lace top thigh high stockings (designer pantyhose not bad). For women 40 & over a very ** large lace trim girdle. You may have a sore Galore behind but you're get a Darn Good penile rock ** fractioning across her lap. The more Whacks you get,the you'll enjoy it!
I'm faithful to my wife,she spanks me weekly because it is a huge turn on for both of us.
Some (most) are fantasy but I've seen it happen 3 times. And they're the ones together
At 16 a family friend started domminng me just for fun at first. I knew better and she knew EXACTLY what to do-"I know how you need it you're too pretty to not be dressed up!" I resisted which meant being spanked. By 17 I had a 32 year old Mommy,and was a cute and passing Trap,subservient except for actual gay **-I brought it up thinking it would please her. Instead I got THE worst punishment from not only Mommy,but a Professional. An Ebony Woman though closer to my age helped (what I know now) mind break me and was proud to tell me.
Then it ended for the most part. I would have Vanilla ** with cute girls and Mommy who was married (for the money) would see me 2 or 3 times a year. I made some bad decisions and did cam ** work until Mommy both mad,frightened,and into it got me a place to live in the same town as Desiree,the Ebony Queen who kept an eye on me. I had been seeing a gorgeous girl,White and Latina (I'm WHITE) who wasn't shy but I didn't think she'd want to see me walk into the bathroom and have Lita come out no matter how cute. So I ended things. So when I got a package containing a magazine (I like them) I got monthly,a belt and an angry letter saying "Nu uh-I know more than you think-expect me Saturday!" I was-I wasn't sure. I asked R,my Minder-actually friend-who called her. When asked "You DO know what's involved besides the..."YES. He needs me to be her Mommy."
I have not cheated on my girlfriend but she says i need to be spanked to keep me focussed and because ku t gives her relief and pleasure. I don't get severe spankings except for each new season. But those are very severe. She used to make me enema first and then once i was sore she would f.... My **...... I did not get any pleasure from being penetrated but she feels the main thing is to grant her pleasure. I am on a high if she canes me, but i cannot fully explain why.
Cobblers
Agreed. Someone’s getting off on writing this.
I get spanked by my girlfriend. She doesn't make me wear girls underwear though. I hope she doesn't see your post. I get spanked about every 2 weeks. It keeps me humble. She makes me get undressed, and I have to sit in a chair in her walk in closed for about 20 minutes and think about it. Then she comes in, leads me by the ear out to the bedroom, takes me over her knee and paddles me. It's a long, painful, stinging spanking.
She sounds very strict and loves to be in charge! I would be really scarred with dry mouth and all if I heard her coming to the closet to take me out to her bed, scold me and take my pants down and put me across her lap to blister my bottom!
Good for you sir. Once you across her lap I be wearing a dress or skirt and under it a large lace trim slip large lace top thigh high stockings and garter belt. If she got a marker and she love the idea, drawing a Bullseye 🎯 🎯 🎯 Target 🎯🎯🎯 on your ** so every single Smack be a Direct Hit 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
What about your sister? I think she needs a good spanking as well. I recommend spanking her bare bottom until it's bright red. Then make her stand in the corner for half an hour with her pants around her ankles and her ** around her knees.
Your boyfriend is a lucky guy to have you spank him like that. Have you considered other positions? A paddle is pretty effective with him lying over your lap, even if you use it as a warmup before the belt. I've ** on my girlfriend's lap when she spanks me that way. If she wanted to use a belt afterwards as punishment for my 'accident' I'd be okay with that too.
It does ** that he cheated on you. I hope he's done with that.
My wife spanks me for any wrong doings or not doing my chores. She uses a large wooden paddle and makes me go over her lap. I then have corner time until she tells me to get dressed.
I think many women spank their husband or boyfriend. In former times it was kept private because it didn't coincide with traditional gender roles, but now it is coming out of the closet. My girlfriend uses a wooden paddle that really stings and makes sitting down very unpleasant for the next few hours.
We have met two or three other couples where the wife spanks her partner. One of the women said she when she spanks her husband it makes him docile and obedient. Not because he is afraid of her, but because he secretly wants to submit to her. I think this the case with many males. We want our wife or girlfriend to be strict with us when it is called for. Very few of us are interested in extreme **, leather, whips etc., but a lot of us accept that we should have our bottoms spanked when we misbehave - or simply when our partner feels like doing it!
My girlfriend caught me kissing another girl at a party and was furious. She gave me the choice, leave or get a whipping. I agreed to the spanking. The next day she took me to a local ** store that specializes in ** and made me stand there while bought a strap and a switch and she made sure the sales girl knew who they were for. That night she told me I'd get what I deserved. She made me strip down to my bikini pants and bend over a chair. She said that just to be sure of things she was going to tie me to the chair. She secured my wrists to the arms. She had positioned the chair in front on a full length mirror. She left the room and came back with the strap and told me she wanted me to see her use the ** me. I was told I'd get 20 and I had to count each one and ask for another. By then I was starting to get a ** which startled me. She asked if I was ready. I mumbled yes and she told me firmly that I was to say "yes mistress please start the spanking" so I did. I saw her in the mirror. She pulled back and delivered a swat that made a loud crack when it collided with my **. "I'm waiting." "One mistress may I please have another." This went on for the rest of the 19. She was methodical and waited a couple seconds between each swat. When she was done she said "what do you have to say." I said "what" and that was the wrong answer because she hauled back and gave me two more. "Thank you mistress." Right answer. She then put some lotion on my ** to cool it and told me that this would not be an isolated incident. She told me that she owned me and that I'd be whipped on a regular basis. She untied me and told me to turn around. I was hesitant because I was as hard as a steel bar. When I did she said, "I knew you'd catch on. Follow me." I followed her into her bedroom and she opened a drawer and gave me a pair of pink bikini ** with lace trim. "Put these on. I want you to wear my ** from now on.
Good girl. If he gets a ** when you strap him then in spite of the pain he likes it. One benefit for you if you don't already know it is that giving the strapping is very arousing. After I gave my submissive boyfriend his third session with a leather belt I started getting hot. My ** got hard and my ** were drenched because it stimulated me to give him more. If you use restraints if you want to go beyond the original number you can and he won't go anywhere. I'd suggest leather ankle and wrist cuffs and chain. Anyway I get hot and wet every time I spank him. I now always wear a pad in my **. He knows it gets me hot because you can't miss my hard ** even with a bra.
I agree with you. Especially getting a bare bottom spanking for doing dangerous things like speeding or running yellow lights or stop signs. All of which my girlfriend has blistered my bare bottom for and stand in the corner till she says I can get out.
I don't understand why men who have decent partners or soulmates have to cheat on them? Aren't they happy with whom they are with? You have a good heart to give him a chance to be together with you. By your boyfriend to wear your ** is so out of this world and for him cheating behind your back is certainly not a nice thing he has done to you. Then he deserves a good spanking but, no paddles or any thing that can harm him. The key to happiness is to teach and guide him as to what he has done was incorrect. But, if in the event, he does it again , is for you and him as to go your separate ways. But , for me who's experience in a solid relationship can tell you it's so hard to find the right man. I let my soulmate the day he cheats behind my back is the day our relationship to each other ends. I expect from him to be trustworthy with me. I spend time to speak with him just how I feel and my advice to you is to do the same. You will see how quickly he chances and improve in his ways towards you! Good Luck!
I agree. We should always be faithful to our wives. Getting spanked as punishment is not my idea of a good marriage. She only does it when I ask not because of punishment. I generally lead in the marriage but all I see on these sites is submissive men which I don't think is healthy.