Strange Relationship Works
After 25 years of marriage my wife left me. She turned into a rather apocalyptic Catholic and obsessive/compulsive hoarder with an attitude that counseling or therapy could not work. Luckily our kids were adults when this happened. It was horrible nonetheless. I did nothing wrong. She wouldn't compromise.
I still had needs and desires that I met in massage parlors, escorts, etc. What I found was respect, dignity and friendship. What I learned was everybody has a story. These fine ladies had bills to pay, kids to support, and job opportunities that didn't provide enough pay to support themselves, especially those with children. We are all just trying to survive.
I developed many friendships with the ladies I paid for companionship and sexual activity. I fell into a great relationship with one lady that was sexual at first but turned into a very supportive relationship. We talked, we listened, we understood and built trust. Her husband had essentially abandoned her with two kids and no support. We helped each other get past our mutual distrust and disappointment and, quite frankly, fell in love.
Fast forward from 1999. We were married after spending the time to build great honesty. Her kids now have fine careers. We are happy and content, She knows the value of great communication and great s** in marriage and has made me happy and satisfied. I have done the same for her. All I can say is don't underestimate the possibility of love and respect, even if it comes from someone others would call a w****. To me she is a heroic goddess and we are a source of happiness for each other. Finally, although my past wife will never read this I must say, "Hey, the world wasn't destroyed and I am happy and deeply in love with someone you would call a w****! She is a loving kind and intelligent human being. Wish you could have been half as normal as her!"