After me and my wife got back together from seperation, she confessed she cheated on me. It tore me up and made me crazy! I spent the next 3yrs doing mean things to her. ie: Once I rubbed jalepeno juice on her s** toys, my favorite thing was to take her out partying and get her plastered when I got her home I would do many, many obscene things with her in her passed out state, like a*** s**, let the dog lick her, I even held her up one time over the corner of the bed and raised and lowered her onto the bed post. I used to take pictures of this and post them on the internet. We are divorced now and I never told her any of this, nor does she know! Should I tell her?