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Ladies please admit to your man that you have had bad experiences and they affect your views on anything that is “not normal “ or that BS fairytale we’ve all been fed and how we’re supposed to act and how things are when we’re ““ married now” we keep passing along this unrealistic ideal about how married people in monogamous relationships are supposed to act but this post from this man is a shining example of how a hall pass could save a marriage because for me I realize right away that none of the women I was dating or even physically involved with could hold a candle to the way my life has sparked my intellect my sexual interests as well as my overall happiness everyone is stacked up to her and they fall way short if I could go back in time I would’ve got counseling for both of us

I meant wife instead of life but she was my world and I just wanted her to be somewhat supportive or open to dealing with her and my sexual relationship issues because let me tell you if you don’t feed a dog at home he’s gonna have to find food somewhere and it’s just the way we are wired and trust me we don’t want anyone but the woman in our lives however we don’t communicate and see things from each others standpoint I hope this helps somebody else please go to counseling as a couple before you end up like me I have been in the worst state of betrayal loneliness sadness anger rage until exhaustion I am not sure that I can beat the urge to let go completely of everything