are we just friends?

im a girl, 18, with a male best friend.
sometimes i wonder if hes ever thought about being with me as more than a friend. i also wonder if he finds me attractive. i wonder if thinking about these things means im in love with him. i also wonder if he loves me, and what it would be like if we were together, would it destroy what we have? you know, i often think about whether he could be gay, that maybe thats why we laugh and get along so well. neither of us hav had a relationship.. both kinda shy, but comfortable together. i'll never know, and that makes me scared i could be missing something.
how can i tell?

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  • GIRL I WAS IN YOUR SITUATION, WE FOOLED AROUND, AND YEARS LATER I TOLD HI HOW I FELT, BUT IT WAS BEFORE I GOT MARRIED, HE MOVED AWAY AND NEVER LOOKED BACK, I MISS HIM TO THIS DAY, AND I WONDER HOW DIFFERENT MY LIFE WOULD OF BEEN, BUT YOU KNOW WHAT I WOULD NOT CHANGE ANYTHING...I AM MARRIED TO A GREAT GUY AND HAVE A BEAUTIFUL BABY BOY...

  • get him in a room alone, take off your clothes, take his cloths off, give him a bj, lay on the bed let him suck on your t*** and eat you out then f*** you, roll overget on your knnes but keep you head on the bed and let hime f*** you in your ass. he'll be your forever and neither one of you will ever be shy with each other again

  • thanks for the words of advice

  • First off I really like the last persons comment, and I agree whith what they had to say. Yes this will completely alter your relatuionship, but being that this is your first relationship he may be gay or he may just not know howw to proceed with putting the moves on you and is just super shy.

  • You might just starting to acknowledge your friends sexuality.

    S** WILL change it as it introduces a level of intimacy; that once you become accustomed to it, it will replace the camaraderie that you used to have.

    You then might start making expectations of how your sexual relationship will develop, or shrink once you realize it is bad, or good for the previous relationship. He might want to cut it off, you might also want to cut it off too.

    Certainly discuss it if you feel it is that important to you. Have you guys ever shared a sexual situation together? Seen an erotic movie or notice arousal in each other at any time?

    If its really a priority for you, then lead a conversation towards it, but in a semi-public place so it doesn't look like you are setting up a situation where one can take advantage of the situation.

    Best of luck!

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