My "big" brother...
This is a true story of my brother and a problem he suffered through during his teen years. Actually I am one year older than my brother but I joke he is my "big" brother. I do that because my brother is BLESSED downstairs. Like Mr. Ed, unusually large blessed. I know most guys would like to have this problem but it is not as great as you think. Especially when you are a really nice guy.
My brother didn't like to play sports or even do gym class because he was embarrassed about showering or changing in front of other guys. He would get teased constantly.
When it came to dating it didn't work out either. When he got to that age where he tried to become sexually active his first couple of relationships were disasters. Neither of the girls could take him and broke up with him. If he were a dirtbag instead of a nice guy he would have just worried about getting his and not hurting the girls.
Of course like teenage girls they did gossip so all the girls began to know knew about his size. Several girls, heck even some of my girl friends began hitting on him just to try it. It still didn't work out and made him feel even worse.
Then one crazy summer! We were both at a party with friends. One of the girls brought a friend from another nearby high school. She was this tiny Asian girl. She was pretty but under five foot and I bet she didn't weigh 80lbs at that time. I could se her friends laughing and some occasional pointing at my brother. By the end of the night she made her way over and began talking to my brother. Then I saw him and her making their way up the stairs toward the bedrooms. I actually tried to catch up and intervene. I was actually scared for her! They waved me off and went into a bedroom and locked the door. It kept running through my mind we were going to be calling for help or taking her to the ER.
But OMG!!! Thirty minutes later they came from the room. The girl was smiling and my brother was so excited he couldn't contain himself. On the way home he gave me the graphic details. Long story short she not only took it, she took the entire thing and begged for more! I don't know how, I envisioned him poking her heart.
It was instant love and they not only dated through high school, they later married and have been together ever since.