I am tired of feeling like I am in this relationship alone. I am tired of his all nighters when he stays out getting drunk with his friends. He is an almost 30, married, father of 2...is it unreasonable for me to expect him to be here, taking on the roles of parent and partner? This is a conversation we've had many times, and I don't seem to be getting anywhere. I don't want to give up, but I'm at my wit's end.