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Looking for suggestions
I have been into spanking for some time now but never did it with someone else only alone... Am 19 year old sub boy and i love being spanked n no one's know about it... So am looking for help or suggestions for self spanking... If u can help i would be glad... My biggest fantasy is being spanked till my big ** is red...for me being spanked n submissive is the biggest turn on
Being spanked is the result of submission that revolves around truly being submissive and in love to another. Are you truly submissive or just wanting to be spanked as a kink? Is your heart truly in love so much that you would really submit to her in mind, heart, and body? Are you willing to do small things to make her smile? Are you willing to be humble and have your Ego shattered? That's the biggest part. Once you have a moment of self-reflection and realize that you are truly submissive and want to change yourself to make your girl happy, then that's the point where you will become truly submissive. You will then enjoy and consume her female energy that will warm your heart and sooth your mind - that will make you more emotionally soft in a good way to where you can really show your true masculinity. Masculinity isn't Uga Uga Alpha. Masculinity is being so in love that you put others first before yourself. Most Alpha Men don't know true love because they are living the normal narrative that tells them, just because they have a **, they are truly masculine. [PART 1]
[PART2] That's only to prove you are Male and that's it. Biology has no determining factor in masculinity. How you act and how you love your significant other does. Actions speak louder than words and body parts. Respecting, honoring, cherishing the one you love is Real Masculinity. If she is right on any issue, submission to her being right equals showing humility is all about. Submitting to her and obeying her when she's right. Obedience is not weakness, it's strength of know who you are. Submissive Men need to be proud of being who they are. First, self-reflect about who you are. When you have your Ego broken submit to yourself and admit that you are Submissive. Then finally go to her and admit to her that you desire to submit to her in a conversation. Listen to her attentively is she has questions. Don't be assertive, be soft in voice. Show her with a good hug that you want her more. Getting on your knees after that point will go a long ways. If you get emotional and start to cry, let the tears flow. Let your honest emotions out. -- Just some thoughts and advice. Note: I am a Submissive Male that had my Ego destroyed after a year long self-reflection. I wish you luck and the very best in life. P.S. Love your girl. Love her more than ever. Kiss her feet *wink that will help out a whole lot.