No ** in years
I haven't had ** with my wife in 3 years. Before the last time it was another 3 years, so we've had ** once in the last six years.
We did have a semi-decent ** life before those six years started but that was mainly because we wanted to get pregnant and my wife's doctor said it would be almost impossible. She took it as a challenge and we had ** any time she felt was the right time.
If you go back farther then that, our ** life was ok but slowing quickly. While dating our ** life was amazing. Anytime either of us wanted it, we got it. Then we got married and she started taking anti-depressants (she's bipolar). At first it slowed to once a week, then once every two weeks, then once a month. I originally thought it was just the honeymoon phase ending. But then it slowed to once every three months, once every six months, once a year. I tried everything I could do, everything I read about in articles to maybe make it better. I started doing the cooking, more of the laundry, just more of everything around the house. While all she did was sit in bed being depressed and sleeping the days away.
Then her medicine got dialed in. She was happier, staying awake a bit longer, and no longer depressed. But she still slept alot. And still said no. Now we are where we are.
I don't know what to do anymore. I don't want to get a divorce. I ** but that's lost it's fun. Especially when you have a beautiful, living breathing woman with a great body sleeping next to you every night. I'm not going to cheat. So how am I supposed to cope. I want **. I need the closeness of it. I miss it more then anything.