I'm in love with my friend but he has a girlfriend

I have a friend who is the funniest person in the world, we only see eacher at work but our friendship has grown into what I believe to be a flirty friendship. I only realised today that I'm in love with him. Not just a sexual ** - a full blown drowning in love thing. I can't stop thinking about him, it actually hurts. He has a long term girlfriend and i am his friend so I give him help and advice about their relationship (genuine advice, not being vindictive or anything). I don't ever want to break them or anything, It just hurts knowing I'm in love with someone who doesn't know and loves another. I'm leaving the region soon and will see him rarely, I know for sure he's the one that got away, I just don't know what to do! I don't want to confess anything (there's no point!) I don't want to be in love with him, but it is what it is, real love. Like I've never felt anything like it before and I'm dreading the day I have to say goodbye - what do I do?

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