Help Me! :(

I'm 14 and I'm a girl. I think I have a crush on my best friend (girl) because every night I dream about her and even during the day I tend to stare at her and start to imagine what it's like to kiss her. I don't know if I'm bi or a lesbian. What sucks is we got into an argument and during that argument I admitted I liked her.
After that fight, one of my other best friend told me that the girl I have a crush on thinks it's awkward to be around me. :( I'm pretty sure I freaked her out while making her mad. There's probably no chances of her and me getting together either.

What do I do? Apologize?

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  • You are 14? If so move on with your life. You will meet hundreds of people. If those in your life now reject you just move on.

  • Hey hun
    Don't apologize for being yourself. You might want to say you're sorry if you've made things awkward with her, but don't apologize for having a crush on her. Understand that your friendship probably will not go back to what it once was, but know that there are other people out there. Have you tried looking into any LGBT groups in your area? maybe try talking to a guidance person at your school.

    Also.. I find that with some female friendships, the 'line' is often undefined.
    Do you just want to kiss this person? Or actually have a relationship with them?
    Because there is such thing as idolizing the person.

  • ^This guy is both ugly and has been molested numerous times by his mom, he knows what it means to be gay.

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